What to do with the toddlers?

We've all been in that place in life - maybe you are there now - where we have a toddler who has significantly increased the activity level in our house as he runs circles around us until that blissful moment when he falls asleep. In the midst of this circumstance, you ask, how can I possibly homeschool? The answer is that you can, if you have a plan.

Let's face it, with a toddler in the house, you won't get much of anything done unless you have a plan. You know your child's ebbs and flows, so to speak. There will be times that he needs one-on-one, and there are times that he needs to be trained to work with the team. Don't fall into the mindset that everything must revolve around him constantly, and that his education (in terms of training, not academics) will wait until he is 4 or 5 years old. Begin now to introduce the concept of working together, helping with chores, etc.

There are a variety of ways to occupy a toddler or even incorporate him in your schoolwork. I would suggest that you look at my earlier posts pertaining to using movement to teach wiggly children - with modification, these methods can work to occuply toddlers, too. Other ideas would be:

~ set up small collections of toys in bins labeled for each school day (Monday, Tuesday, etc.) and offer those to your toddler on just that day of the week. Seeing these toys so infrequently will make them seem "new" and keep the child interested longer while you work with the older children.

~ create a place for the toddler to "do school" - whether in the high chair, in a chair at the table, or at a small table nearby - and give him tasks to work on. These can include lacing cards, stacking blocks, connecting Legos or Duplos, or other small-scale activities.

~ establish a "recess" for each of the older children to play with the toddler while you focus on a subject with one of the other children.

~ make the most of nap time, saving subjects for which an older child needs quiet to concentrate or your undivided attention, provided nap time falls at a time of day when that child is at his or her peak in focus ability.

~ if you use music to help your children memorize, encourage the toddler to participate. I particularly recommend the Sing the Word Bible memorization CDs that Sonlight offers - they work well at home or in the car.

You will be amazed at what they can learn just by being in the room with you while you teach your older children. I remember a TV commercial that illustrated this so very well ... it featured a family eating breakfast and Dad quizzing his son on the state capitols. When he asked him the capitol of Vermont, the boy seemed stumped, but his little sister, sitting in her high chair, looked up from the food on her tray and called out "Montpelier!" It could happen in your home, too!